With regards to point 1, you agreed to the rules of this board when you signed up on here (it was part of the signup process), if you chose not to read them, then you can not complain about getting banned, when you broke the rules. Therefore there is no reason for myself or any other member of the team to pardon you (or anyone else), the rules are there for a reason and you agreed with them (even if you chose not to read them). So maybe you should take the time to read them before you continue to post on this board.
As for point 2, this board is not exclusively for blackhole users, it is for all Vu+ users, however this board is the home of the blackhole team, therefore we are obviously biased, as we do not spend hours and hours putting images, features and skins together and then testing everything, if we didn't believe that out images are the best. But we don't force anyone to use our images, we know everything is personal preference and therefore encourage users to try all images and decide which is the best for there usage.
As for everything else you posted, please read the various threads of this and other boards and you will find the answers you are looking for (that is the great thing about these forums, most questions have been asked and answered many times before).